My girlfriend and her interest in other men

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Re: My girlfriend and her interest in other men

Post by St4gC7ck » Wed Mar 05, 2025 8:13 pm

yeah you are fucked and owned, congrats sissy!! :D

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Re: My girlfriend and her interest in other men

Post by user322 » Thu Mar 06, 2025 7:56 am

Hi
don't pay attention to those who transmit fear. I've noticed on this forum that people often project their own fears and their way of seeing things onto other people's experiences, and issue lots of warnings, without really caring about what the person who shares their story wants.

It seems to me that your girlfriend has no intention of leaving you. She's the one who wants her bull to come to your place, and she gets excited when you're observant. And recently, despite having a close bond with her bull, she still suggests that you get engaged. It seems pretty obvious to me that if your girlfriend wanted to leave you she would have already done so, and that what your girlfriend likes is the cuckold dynamic. After all, anything can happen, your girlfriend can leave you, but that can happen to any couple, including classic couples.

Then if you are excited by all this, and your girlfriend is on the same wavelength, what can you be afraid of?
If the fact that this guy comes to live with you really bothers you, then indeed set your limits. But it's the same for everything in life, in our social interactions, when something displeases us, we must know how to set these limits.
It's up to you to see if you like this dynamic of the bull who dominates, and you as the beta male of your trio. If you don't like it, set a limit, otherwise enjoy the experience!

But in any case, don't be afraid, your girlfriend clearly seems to have the state of mind for a cuckold relationship.

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Re: My girlfriend and her interest in other men

Post by Tolliver » Sat Mar 08, 2025 6:51 am

Thank you for the advice. I don't think I want him having 24/7 access to her, so I will put my foot down on that.

So yesterday I was off at noon to go get my taxes done. The appt wasn't until 2 so Rie asked me to come down to her work (a doctor's office) and meet her coworkers, which I did. A few of the doctors are men but all the rest there that I saw, maybe 10-12 people, were women. Her best friend (also a receptionist/office worker) Renee, who she has talked about quite a bit but I have never met until yesterday, was very friendly. After I met everyone, the three of us went to a back room where the file cabinets are and closed the door and talked.

After 5 mins or so of general socializing, Renee drops a bomb on me and says she thinks it's great that even though we're engaged, I let Rie have a guy on the side who takes care of her needs, that it's something she really needed, and that the world needs more men like me. Well I felt like I had been punched in the gut and my face must have turned beet red because she smiled and said it was okay, that the two of them talk about everything, and that she is married but also has a boyfriend on the side that her husband is aware of.

Well the chat turned to other more normal things as I tried to recover, but before I left, Renee turned to Rie and said "now that I've met your fiance, when do I get to meet your boyfriend?" with a devilish smile. Her response was to tease her by saying whenever she gets to meet her (Renee's) boyfriend. Renee then jokes back that she doesn't know about that because Rie is younger (probably by a good 15 years) and her boyfriend would probably hit on her shamelessly, which they both had a good laugh about.

So that's where I'm at, outed as a cuck at her place of work. Was very gut wrenching at the time but have to admit it's kind of a turn on now as I'm safe in the comfort of my own home. Rie and I are going for a walk then to Home Depot, and some shopping, then will cook dinner and Big Mark will be over to eat as well and probably have his way with her while I either watch or listen.

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Re: My girlfriend and her interest in other men

Post by ShyBiGuy954 » Sat Mar 08, 2025 7:32 am

Tolliver wrote:
Sat Mar 08, 2025 6:51 am

So that's where I'm at, outed as a cuck at her place of work. Was very gut wrenching at the time but have to admit it's kind of a turn on now as I'm safe in the comfort of my own home.
Wasn't there something a cpl of months ago where someone from your building saw Rie and Big Mark making out in the parking lot, and then asked Rie if she a "thing" going with Mark, and Rie acknowledged yes??
Her: Did you like eating my pussy tonight?
Me: Of course, why?
Her: Your my second date tonight, I already fucked ******
(it was a guy I worked with)

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Re: My girlfriend and her interest in other men

Post by scarlettscuck » Sat Mar 08, 2025 8:51 am

This story is so awesome. I love it. It’s methodical and progressing so well. Enjoy the ride. She sounds like an amazing (soon to be Hotwife)! Would you be willing to share a few pics of her?
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Re: My girlfriend and her interest in other men

Post by elina » Sat Mar 08, 2025 11:08 am

Well,

I hope you did manage to get your taxes done in the midst of all that?

And actually, you had allready been outed; you just did not know you had untill yesterday.
Probably better to know about it than having people know about it while you don't know that they know?

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Re: My girlfriend and her interest in other men

Post by user322 » Sat Mar 08, 2025 11:09 pm

Hello,
Could you post more often? Giving more details about what happens between your girlfriend and her bull, their mating, your girlfriend's teasing? I find your cuckold dynamic very interesting to follow!

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Re: My girlfriend and her interest in other men

Post by nutjob » Mon Mar 10, 2025 10:17 am

Tolliver wrote:
Sat Mar 08, 2025 6:51 am
Well I felt like I had been punched in the gut and my face must have turned beet red because she smiled and said it was okay, that the two of them talk about everything, and that she is married but also has a boyfriend on the side that her husband is aware of.
Did her reassurance that she understood the situation, because she lives the same thing (albeit from your girlfriend's side) provide any actual reassurance to you at all, in terms of being outed?

That is, you've been outed, but to likely one of the few people who aren't going to knee-jerk judge you for your place in the dynamic. Does that give you any reassurance or relief from what must otherwise be fairly terrifying?

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Re: My girlfriend and her interest in other men

Post by ucaneffher » Mon Mar 10, 2025 4:07 pm

Tolliver wrote:
Sat Mar 08, 2025 6:51 am

After 5 mins or so of general socializing, Renee drops a bomb on me and says she thinks it's great that even though we're engaged, I let Rie have a guy on the side who takes care of her needs, that it's something she really needed, and that the world needs more men like me. Well I felt like I had been punched in the gut and my face must have turned beet red because she smiled and said it was okay, that the two of them talk about everything, and that she is married but also has a boyfriend on the side that her husband is aware of.
It's very likely that Renee may have indirectly influenced your lady to steer the relationship in that direction. Girls talk and tell each other things and perhaps without realizing, the other one is liking the way things sound. Suddenly she is asking questions about the arrangement then one thing leads to the next and now they're both trying to get her to also join such liberating lifestyle.

If that is the case, I can assure you that myself and every wannabe cuckold on this group would love it if their GF/wife had a girl friend in the lifestyle who shared everything with her and even persuaded her to go for it. It sounds like your lady has been getting plenty of advice and inspiration from Renee.

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Re: My girlfriend and her interest in other men

Post by Tolliver » Tue Mar 11, 2025 1:33 pm

Thanks for the interest and questions everybody. Posting here has been good for me because I can type of some real life events but also kind of a turn on to share and relive the moments in question from a safe place at the computer.

I found out the Big Mark will be going home after the semester is over. He lives about 3 hours away and Rie has already expressed interest in either visiting or having him visit here. He'd be living with his parents for a few months over the summer so likely would be him visiting here I'm thinking. His lease will be up and he will be moving back in the fall, probably somewhere else. I think I'd be okay with him visiting as long as it wasn't permanent.

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Re: My girlfriend and her interest in other men

Post by Freemans892 » Tue Mar 11, 2025 6:56 pm

I agree with your approach with Big Mark. My assumption once Big Mark finishes university, he may move for work or he end up finding his own girlfriend as he established his career.

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Re: My girlfriend and her interest in other men

Post by Tolliver » Sat Mar 15, 2025 6:27 am

Some updates for those interested. Rie and I have been chatting about Big Mark the last few days. She confessed he had developed feelings for her and secretly wanted to steal her from me and also get her pregnant. She assured me only I would be the one to do that, which was a nice moment for us.

Over the last week he's been more rough around the edges with her. Last night we went to a brewery for a tour. This was after an hour or so at the bar where we all had a couple drinks. After the initial tour where we had a few small shots of whiskey, he started getting fresh with her. Hands on her ass more than a few times, which she had no qualms whatsoever about. After the brewery area, we went to where the barrels are kept in a big room. We were in the back and he was still grabbing her ass. It was a little chilly but he told her to take off her long salt and pepper black jacket, revealing a low cut top with lots of cleavage and no bra. She did as told and handed it to me. He started pulling her top down soon after. She already had ample cleavage showing so when he pulled the front of her top down her breasts started spilling out, nips and all. I was a little worried the tour guide might notice but we were kind of behind a pillar and also he was strategic about when he would do it. I had enough experience with the kink now that I was enjoying my girl being treated like that, hoping he wouldn't go too far but also wondering what else he might do. Well another guy must have heard her laughing and muffled protests because he turned around and walked back and joined us. He said he could tell where the real party was and we started chatting with him and as the group moved back to the main area, we stayed put and chatted with the guy, Andrew I think his name was. He said he could hear some interesting noises coming from our direction and wanted to see what all the fuss was about. Big Mark was assertive, telling him we were all a little tipsy and just enjoying the evening, and he was happy about how amazing HIS girlfriend looked tonight and wanted to show the world just how pretty she was. He agreed wholeheartedly as she slapped big marks arm, at which point Big Mark asked him how big did he think her breasts were. He confidently answered full DD and Mark told him he was exactly right, and did he want to see them firsthand. He said absolutely and Mark didn't hesitate to help her breasts out of the top. It was a cute brown blouse with floral pattern and very much open and showing cleavage. Her amazing breasts did not have a problem spilling right out, nipples and all. Rie was beside herself with protest but clearly still loving the attention and naughty treatment. Andrew asked if he could touch them and Mark immediately said go right ahead. He took the liberty of sucking her nips at which point RIe was very into it. She was sighing loudly and bit her lip and I knew she was ready to get laid. I was thinking whether or not Mark was going to let Andrew have sex with Rie when he (Andrew) asked if she was available for something more and Mark told him "Why don't we walk over to the woods and see what we can come up with". Andrew checked his watch and said he would love to but his wife who was held up at work would be here soon and probably didn't have time. He asked if he could trade numbers and maybe get together soon. To my surprise Mark traded numbers with him, had Rie bend over for him so he could check out her ass in her tight jeans. He breasts were back in place but one spilled out again as he massaged her backside, and then he left, saying he had to get back to the tour.

The two of them then headed out a side door, walked a ways toward the tree line. There was actually another type of get together in the distance in that direction, looked like some kind of pirate thing when we got close, but they diverged into the woods. He bent her over and fucked her from behind while dirty talking about her being a hooker, which she couldn't have loved any more.

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Re: My girlfriend and her interest in other men

Post by ShyBiGuy954 » Sat Mar 15, 2025 8:38 am

Well, now that you've seen her be so open with a stranger, what are your thoughts about her fucking another guy besides Big Mark, and Big Mark sharing her with other guys as if she's HIS girlfriend??
Her: Did you like eating my pussy tonight?
Me: Of course, why?
Her: Your my second date tonight, I already fucked ******
(it was a guy I worked with)

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Re: My girlfriend and her interest in other men

Post by Tolliver » Sat Mar 15, 2025 8:55 am

Very conflicted. I was a bit taken aback as the new guy was feeling up my fiance and basically drooling over her like his next meal. I was not too distraught tho like I have been in the past, probably because it was just fondling and not outright sex. When Mark took her into the woods btw, I was fine with it. I'm now accustomed to him being her primary stud and basically her primary sexual provider. It's old hat now.

He stopped over here and hour ago and told her Andrew had texted and wanted to partake of her services. She got suddenly animated with a devilish smile and told him he was getting her wet. Again he took her into the bedroom and I could hear them having amazing sex leading to a loud screaming orgasm for her. When they came out he asked if she was prepared to meet Andrew again sometime soon. She smiled an embarrassed yet happy grin and said it would depend. He said he wanted to set something up for tonight and for her to be ready, then left.

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Re: My girlfriend and her interest in other men

Post by ShyBiGuy954 » Sat Mar 15, 2025 11:13 am

Tolliver wrote:
Sat Mar 15, 2025 8:55 am
........ He said he wanted to set something up for tonight and for her to be ready, then left.
Very interesting!!

I wonder if Andrew is aware Rei is your fiance, and Mark is her Bull that is sharing her without discussing it with you. Either way he doesn't seem shy about being with someone else's GF.

Looking fwd to next update!!
Her: Did you like eating my pussy tonight?
Me: Of course, why?
Her: Your my second date tonight, I already fucked ******
(it was a guy I worked with)

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Re: My girlfriend and her interest in other men

Post by Ready2StartAgain » Sun Mar 16, 2025 2:39 pm

Tolliver wrote:
Sat Mar 15, 2025 8:55 am
Very conflicted. I was a bit taken aback as the new guy was feeling up my fiance and basically drooling over her like his next meal. I was not too distraught tho like I have been in the past, probably because it was just fondling and not outright sex. When Mark took her into the woods btw, I was fine with it. I'm now accustomed to him being her primary stud and basically her primary sexual provider. It's old hat now.

He stopped over here and hour ago and told her Andrew had texted and wanted to partake of her services. She got suddenly animated with a devilish smile and told him he was getting her wet. Again he took her into the bedroom and I could hear them having amazing sex leading to a loud screaming orgasm for her. When they came out he asked if she was prepared to meet Andrew again sometime soon. She smiled an embarrassed yet happy grin and said it would depend. He said he wanted to set something up for tonight and for her to be ready, then left.
So what would it depend on?! How did it go?!

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Post by Tolliver » Tue Mar 18, 2025 7:20 am

Andrew stopped by Sunday late afternoon around 4. I thought I posted this yesterday but it appears the submit didn't work. Big Mark had explained he was coming over for a blowjob, and she would do her thing in the living room with us both there to make sure everything went okay. Rie was nervous but clearly turned on by the whole thing. I told her not to worry that everything was going to be fine, and she told me that was sweet of me to say. She poured a glass of wine 15 minutes before he arrived and had it finished when the knock came. She answered and greeted him in a light pink satin bathrobe that came down to her knees. He hugged her and told her he thought she was great the other night and was looking forward to spending some time with her. She said she was looking forward to it also, again with an embarrassed smile and a few sexy furtive glances to the side and floor.

He explained he didn't have a lot of time. She led him to the rug in the living room and took off her bathrobe, revealing nothing underneath but a pair of black sheer panties. I had already turned the heat up for her as it was a bit chilly out. He smiled and unbuckled as she got on her knees.

She started licking his cock gently an inch or two down from the head, and branched out from there, eventually taking the head in her mouth, clearly trying to show him a great time. At one point he said something about how she was very good at what she was doing and she looked up with a big smile, her teeth still on the head of his cock. He gave her orders on what he wanted done and she happily did all of them. He ended up coming in her mouth and she swallowed. He then paid and left, after which Mark took her into the bedroom and fucked her, and I jacked off to pics of her and Mark from a month or so ago.

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Re: My girlfriend and her interest in other men

Post by ShyBiGuy954 » Tue Mar 18, 2025 7:41 am

Tolliver wrote:
Tue Mar 18, 2025 7:20 am
Andrew stopped by Sunday late afternoon around 4. ....

He explained he didn't have a lot of time. She led him to the rug in the living room and took off her bathrobe, revealing nothing underneath but a pair of black sheer panties. I had already turned the heat up for her as it was a bit chilly out. He smiled and unbuckled as she got on her knees.

She started licking his cock gently an inch or two down from the head, and branched out from there, eventually taking the head in her mouth, clearly trying to show him a great time. At one point he said something about how she was very good at what she was doing and she looked up with a big smile, her teeth still on the head of his cock. He gave her orders on what he wanted done and she happily did all of them. He ended up coming in her mouth and she swallowed. He then paid and left, after which Mark took her into the bedroom and fucked her, and I jacked off to pics of her and Mark from a month or so ago.
Fuck that's Hot!!

I didn't realize before it was a "business transaction" :mrgreen:

Things have come a long way from you being aggravated at her flirting with other guys at a concert, to you jerking off from watching her give a BJ to a stranger. :whip:

Have you and Rie talked about it since?? what she thought of the experience with Andrew and of being shared by Mark?
Her: Did you like eating my pussy tonight?
Me: Of course, why?
Her: Your my second date tonight, I already fucked ******
(it was a guy I worked with)

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Re: My girlfriend and her interest in other men

Post by Tap » Tue Mar 18, 2025 8:22 am

Tolliver, have you ever considered not marrying Rie, and, instead, marrying a girl who is actually in love with you?

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Re: My girlfriend and her interest in other men

Post by Barti » Tue Mar 18, 2025 8:29 am

Tap wrote:
Tue Mar 18, 2025 8:22 am
Tolliver, have you ever considered not marrying Rie, and, instead, marrying a girl who is actually in love with you?
Haha, curious if you have the same opinion bout my fiance/hotwife. And for the record, we have 100% love, trust and good communication

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Re: My girlfriend and her interest in other men

Post by edgedndenied » Tue Mar 18, 2025 9:36 am

Is Mark pimping out Rie for money now?

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Re: My girlfriend and her interest in other men

Post by setv4 » Tue Mar 18, 2025 10:26 am

It time to 'Move On' from this 'Relationship with Rie, Mark & now Andrew. Get your ring back and your dignity, find a woman who actually Loves you, and will enjoy sharing your kink, in a way that is more respectful & rewarding for both of you. If You want to share her, that is ok, it is not right for a #3 to share your #1 with anyone else. If you and her want to do that then so be it, but it is not Mark's option to make her perform sex acts for money with strangers or other men.
Just my humble opinion, as you can do whatever you feel is acceptable for you. Best of luck going forward.

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Re: My girlfriend and her interest in other men

Post by hornedhubby » Tue Mar 18, 2025 4:01 pm

Bingo. Agree with setv4 in spades. Mark is just a Big asshole. And Rie is tooling the hell out of you.
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Re: My girlfriend and her interest in other men

Post by Freemans892 » Tue Mar 18, 2025 6:17 pm

I’m working on the theory that Mark’s, not big Mark, and Rie’s relationship will change and reset when Big Mark goes home for three months. There is a strong possibility that Big Mark may not even move back to his current apartment when he returns from his summer break. I see Rie being a submissive to dominant guys but doesn’t want that in her life partner, where the relationship will be more of equals between the two of them. I do see Big Mike being an ass at the moment because he wasn’t able to break up Mark’s and Rie’s relationship and get Rie all to himself.

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Re: My girlfriend and her interest in other men

Post by bradisalpha » Wed Mar 19, 2025 2:05 am

Tolliver wrote:
Mon Dec 30, 2024 1:30 pm
Yes she definitely enjoys sucking him in front of me. She's confessed it gets her hot and she has mentioned for her birthday she might like to try having sex with him in our apartment rather than just a bj. I'm getting a little more comfortable with it but tbh still very flustered when she goes down on him and starts doing her thing. She gets very into it and I've seen some very well lit views of them together. It messes with my head. She recently sent me a picture of her in his apartment, sitting on his sofa with arms crossed in a photogenic position and a sweet smile, with him standing next to her, approximately at blowjob height, which I feel was intentionally suggestive. I have been wanting to just ask her if he's her boyfriend or if I am, but so far haven't gotten up the nerve.
She is definitely grooming you into becoming her cuckold BF.. possibly husband if you comply !! It is hotter for her in her sexual adventures with you watching.. you being an active participant.. someone that will submit to her desires and always be there for her as her steady partner and support her desires. After all, a hot wife is not a hot wife without a cuckold husband at home !!

I also think that her adventures excite you more than you admit. I believe it is arousing each time you think of her seducing someone and you cannot wait to have sex with her afterwards .. thinking about how sexy she looks with someone.. and how she teases you afterwards. I think you are enjoying every minute of it and are in this forum looking for a better understanding of your gf and what is happening to you.

However, I may be wrong in my observation, but I give you all of my encouragement for a happy future with your gf and your lifestyle.

Sincerely,

Brad
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